On Kabbalat Shabbat, New Year’s Eve, I shared some of my Scottish heritage with the congregation. Yearning for some of the traditions that I grew up with (primarily enjoying a dram of whiskey, eating shortbread, and watching the Hogmanay celebrations on BBC Scotland), we welcomed in the Scottish Shabbes Bride to the strains of Scotland the Brave, and closed out the service with Adon Olam sung to Auld Lang Syne. Adorned with a Scottish bunnet and a tartan tallit, my intention was primarily to bring some of the joy and celebratory mood of the night and to weave it into our Shabbes prayers.
Hogmanay is the name given to New Year’s Eve in Scotland. No-one is quite sure of the origin of the name or its meaning – Wikipedia and other sources will share several theories about multiple linguistic roots. Not to be found among them, but quite tempting as a valid possibility, is the Hebrew ‘Chag haMonnaie’ – the Festival of Counting. Our Scottish Shabbes Bride was our ‘First Footer’ of the evening. While usually referring to the first person to cross the threshold of a neighbor after midnight, bearing whiskey, shortbread, a lump of coal and some salt, ours was the first to cross our threshold after we lit Shabbes candles. She entered in style and serenaded us, quite literally.
For a number of years, one of the highlights of the televised Hogmanay specials in Scotland was a short segment toward the end of the evening featuring a special message from a Presbyterian minister of some repute – the Rev. I.M. Jolly. While I could scarcely do justice to the joyful message that Rev. Jolly would share each year, I did my best to replicate his style and content. But for many congregants who wanted more, I present to you here, below, the original Rev. I.M. Jolly. Wishing you all blessings, good health, and much happiness and joy in 2011. Rabbi Rachel Gurevitz
Living a life that feels centered and whole is also living a life that feels joyful.
A congregant has been attending a local ‘Happiness Club’ . They recently shared how some of the simple wisdom on how to live a joyful life has helped them and, with their permission, I share their reflections here:
“Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over it became a butterfly”. I reflect on this quote at my desk time and time again when I think that things may never change or improve for the better. Yet in addition, I also try to remember that it “never gets darker then midnight”. A few years back I read an interesting article about the “Pursuit of Happiness” in the Fairfield Citizen newspaper. At the end of the article it mentioned that the writer, Lionel Ketchian, also ran monthly Happiness Club meetings in the area. I was intrigued and decided to try out a meeting for myself and became hooked.
I became a regular at the meetings for quite some time. Currently, if I can’t attend a meeting I read the monthly “Happiness Club” website columns and become inspired. This helps to keep me afloat, remain positive, and focus on what is truly important. It reminds me to be happy and realize the beauty and value of each day. It was also through one of the Happiness Club meetings that I became acquainted with the happiness teachings of Rabbi Zelig Pliskin of /city>/city> city="">/>/place>/place> place="">/>Jerusalem/place> place="">/> place="">/>>/>/city> city="">/> city="">/>>/>. Each day I receive an email from him citing his “daily lift”. I begin my day by reading his message which inspires me throughout the rest of the day. Each passage is so powerful and poignant with a lesson to remember and words to live by.
Most important, between the mantra of The Happiness Club and Rabbi Pliskin, I now focus on gratitude more and more in my own daily prayers. I believe it is the key to happiness and focus on the blessings of what I have and not what I am missing. I also recite or make a daily mental list of all the “non material” things that I have and I am grateful for. The ones that money can’t buy. These are the most valuable things for which I thank God.
The first words of the traditional Jewish prayer for waking up in the morning are Modeh ani lefanecha… Thankful am I before You. A daily practice of affirming the good in one’s life can help to set the tone for the rest of your day. If you have a daily mental gratitude list that you wish to share, please add to the comments for this posting.
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“He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.” – Epictetus
“Happiness comes from spiritual wealth, not material wealth…Happiness comes from giving, not getting. If we try hard to bring happiness to others, we cannot stop it from coming to us also. To get joy, we must give it, and to keep joy, we must scatter it.” – John Templeton